Happy New Year!

Well, I guess the year is far gone for 'Welcome to 2019' But whatever season you are in, I welcome you to a new phase of life. Life is only what we make of it. we may have many plans but ultimately, it is the things we work on that will bear fruits. So don't be busy, be productive. sure the steam will run out in a few weeks or months time, but it is up to you to refuel your fire and keep the passion to achieve burning.

In January when I started writing this post, I wrote this paragraph to cover February 2019 elections in Nigeria: "We are entering a quintessential time in the history of Nigeria as we fall upon yet another 'June 12th' moment. Will democracy yield the best result for us as Nigerians? Will the vast Majority rally around a candidate that holds the most promise to cause a change in our current story? Everyone is asking, who do we vote? Will our votes count? In all these, I want to say, let's seek peace above all else. Don't lose your head or relationships because of political inclinations. Let's be of one mind on what we want and nothing will be impossible for us. Shun ethnic and religious bias in your decision process and vote according to your beliefs and conscience. Let's agree to disagree."

That aside, we are in March. and on March 3rd, the International Wildlife Day, we addressed a very important issue in our history as human beings. Below is an article I wrote for my Connect Nigeria travel column:  

International Wildlife Day

One beautiful part of tourism is taking time out from our world to have a peek at Nature. We long to see animals in their habitat and how they interact. It reminds us of how special the world is.

That is why on March 3rd 1973, the United Nations General Assembly (UNGA) took a stand on issues relating to protecting endangered species worldwide. They made their plans tangible on the 20^th of December 2013 when March 3^rd was declared as the International Wildlife Day. The aim was to raise awareness of the world’s animals and plants.

March 3^rd was the day of the Convention on International Trade of Endangered species (CITES) of Fauna and Flora before it became International Wildlife Day. It was the set aside in 1973 to make sure international trade does not threaten the survival of wildlife.

Since 2013, UNGA has given March 3rd themes to direct the focus of the celebration of wildlife. In 2015, the focus was on crimes against wildlife; 2016, it was the future of elephants in our hands. While in 2017, the focus was on enlisting the youths in the cause by encouraging them to take responsibility for environmental and wildlife conservation. Last year, the focus was on saving predatory big cats - like lion, leopards, tigers,  - which have become endangered worldwide.

This year, the focus is on Marine life. The theme for the International Wildlife Day 2019 is Life below water: for people and planet. Our coastal areas and its biodiversity have provided humanity with livelihood over the years, contributing to GDPs and enriching lives. There is so much our marine life can offer us. However, marine life is being threatened by humans. Threats range from bleaching of coral reefs and plastic/metals/faecal coliforms/industrial waste pollution to deforestation, urbanisation, poaching, etc.

In Nigeria, rather than be enthralled by or revere marine life, the appeal for the exotic has put many sea creatures on the menu. Also, the fear of the unknown has led to the death of many unique species. E.g. The West African Manatee killed in 2016 at Badagry by people lacking in knowledge on aquatic biodiversity. It’s only crime was being an unidentifiable sea creature. But that isn’t the only case. In 2014, there was a report of Nigerians killing an unidentified sea creature (which looked like a white Humpback whale) found at Eleko beach in Lagos state for food.

Other sea creatures that have been killed on Nigerians shores include a Dolphin, Stingray, Shark, Turtles and Tortoises, etc. Humpback Whales were killed In Ilaje and Ese-Odo, Ondo State and In Brass, Bayelsa For Food in July last year. In January this year, the video of an endangered species, Leatherback Turtle, found at Okpoama Beach in Bayelsa was posted on social media showing its maltreatment while being taunted with a cutlass. This poor attitude towards marine creatures is exactly why we need to get as many Nigerians educated on how to conserve marine life and the environment.

With tourism activities, such as deep sea diving and snorkelling, becoming a thing these days and beach cleanup by tour companies as a voluntourism, there is a growing awareness of protecting Marine life. Just last month, Doyinsola Ogunye, a lawyer and conservationist, rescued a pregnant Leatherback turtle at Elegushi beach, Ikate, Lagos from desperate area boys looking to make quick money from it or mince meal of it.

Hopefully, the celebration of the 2019 International Wildlife Day will help to create an increased awareness on the need to protect the biodiversity of marine life in Nigeria and come up with sustainable development plans for marine species. You can get involved by learning about different species of marine life, the challenges they face and how to help them. Then share what you’ve learned on social media using the following hashtags: #LifeBelowWater, #WWD2019, #MarineSpecies #DoOneThingToday #SDG14. Let us help to make Nigeria a safe haven for the numerous Wildlife within our Borders. Let us help to make Nigeria a safe haven for the numerous Wildlife within our Borders. 

This is a conversation that goes beyond a single day in a year. Our Zoos are lacking in variety of animals while we eat all kinds of animals as bush meat. This is a trend that must stop. If we are not helping to prevent their extinction by ensuring their numbers increase, then we should not be eating them. My heart broke as I read reports of Nigerians eating harmless creatures that balance our ecosystem. isn't it enough that their lives are under threat from global warming and all manners of pollution? It is a shame to have a Ministry for Environment or Minister of state for environment and yet have no documentation or statistics on the range of wildlife within our borders both on land and in the sea? We need to have aquatic museums where our children can visit and glimpse the life of animals under the sea and safe water activities and sports that help us Nigerians to have a healthy interaction with the creatures of the deep. 

We need to do better as a people. The world is changing, let's not become footprints in the sands washed away by the tides of time. 

Celebrating the 4th of July

Happy Independence Day America! Greetings to my ever faithful readers in the USA. As you guys celebrate the democratic birth of your nation over 240years ago, I would like to use this day to commemorate a woman who stirred in me the passion for national reformation, whose birthday happens to actually be today. Her name is Dr Joe Odumakin.

I recently did a piece on her for Connect Nigeria which will be posted soon, and I was reminded again just how blessed we are to have a humble, dedicated and vigorous woman fighting for the cause of female liberties, justice and good governance in our country. I remember the first time I heard her speak; it challenged me to start paying closer attention to National issues and how I could use my gift of writing to make a difference in Nation building. I ran up to her after the program to not only have a picture of her but to volunteer my blog to be used to spread communique on any subject she deems fit to rally behind. As with all busy people, our communication stopped after a few emails. But the seeds she sowed in my heart forced me to ask myself critical questions like, am I ready to die for the cause of a better Nigeria?

These days we have so many social media activists in Nigeria, but when push comes to shove, everyone gets tongued tied because only a few have what it takes to endure what Dr Joe has endured in the fight for a better Nigeria. Only when you are willing to fight selflessly for a cause can you truly admit that you are dedicated to that cause. So here are some nuggets of truth I picked up from her life story when I was done researching on her:

1. Own a cause - There is a lot wrong with the world we live in today. Colin Tomlin’s book, Your A-Z for Growth, mentions having a cause as one of the prerequisites for personal growth/maturity. When you commit yourself to being the solution to any of the many challenges the world faces, you become fulfilled and a master at something. You don’t have to be the one in the streets leading the protests if you can’t handle the consequences of such actions from powers that be. You can help a cause by giving your time, money or skill. Support those who are doing what you would love to do and stay committed to them. You don’t have to solve an institutional or systematic wrong alone; start little by sensitising others, building a team of people as passionate about the cause as you are and start working on doable solutions to the problems. Look around you, who can you help? Take action, and like little drops of water that make a mighty ocean, you will find yourself championing a cause.

2. Have a stable source of income - There is a lot we would love to do to make our lives more meaningful. Like committing to an NGO or religious organisation, going on business trips or vacations abroad, getting recognition for our skills or enterprise. But all that cannot happen if we are broke. We need to be financially empowered to live out our dreams. To do so, you need to have the right education. Books are a powerful tool for mental transformation. So read widely, both what you like and what you don’t like for examples, history, memorandums, biographies, articles on specialist fields like medicine, computing, etc. Also, Study in the field of your interests, learn soft skills, stay hungry and be ready to work without making excuses.

3. Marry the right person - There is a school that believes no one is Mr or Mrs Right, but it's a known fact that there are factors to consider before tying yourself to any one individual in the bonds of marriage. One of which is having a spouse that supports your vision or passion. One who is willing to give you room to achieve the lofty heights you need to attain in life for your own personal fulfilment. Someone who understands what makes you tick and can help you resolve any issues or obstacles that can stand in your way of achieving your dreams. Also, make out time to treat that person special. Find their love language and reciprocate as often as you can. Nothing encourages a spouse as much as gratitude and mutual respect.

4. Have Mentors - It’s not enough to admire people from books or from a distance. You need to have physical mentors. People who will guide you in decision making, push you to give your best, throw you curve balls to overcome and stand with you both in public and private. The mentor does not necessarily need to be in your field of interest. They could be people who dared to do things by working with principles that will give you the result you need for your endeavours. People whose lives have the fruit and result you want in yours and are willing to dedicate the time to inspire you to become just that. A lot of people want to be called a coach and have people kiss up to them in their charge, but the proof of a real mentor is one who will continue to follow your progress, being actively involved even when the purpose for your union has long expired. I’m sure if I had more time, I would have said a lot more. It’s good to have someone to look up to. They may not be perfect or do things right all the time, but just being there gives you the strength to persist in your battles. Likewise, be such an inspiration to others around. As we all play our part, we will see a change in our world. Once again, Happy Birthday America and Happy Birthday Dr Josephine Obiajulu Okei-Odumakin.

#HallelujahChallenge

I've been a fan of Nathaniel Bassey's Music since I first heard him minister in Benin City five years ago. I was part of the choir that backed him up during some of his ministrations even though it was our church's show then. Don't bother looking for me in the picture; you won't see me - a black girl wearing black tends to fade behind lead backup singers. LOL. Anyway, I remember being so moved by it that all I could think about was heaven and being as far removed from the troubles of this world. Fast forward to last year during The Experience 11th edition hosted by House on The Rock. Although Nathaniel Bassey was visibly absent, foreign ministers like Micah Stampley and Donnie McCklurkin, couldn't help crooning his songs because they resonated with the vast crowd of believers gathered to worship.

Based on The Experience, it should come as no surprise that Nigerians are currently trending on social media with the one-hour midnight praise for 30 days (also known as the #HallelujahChallenge) initiated by Nathaniel Bassey which commenced on June 1st. But the one thing that seems to be standing out is not just the number or range of people turning up at midnight to sing praises to God for an hour; it is the ripple effect that it's making waves. Such as:

1. The numerous instant miracles and testimonies that began to pour in from people who participated.

2. The multiple mentions on social media (Statistics from Evolve Press: 10,000 posts with the hashtag "#HallelujahChallenge" and over 18,000 with the hashtag "#olowogbogboro") making it highly trendy in Nigerian and now globally with a mention from CNN.

3. The backlash (There is word going around that the movement was attacked on social media by a journalist, and there's been some outrage. But we'll come to that in a bit.)

4. The increasing number of News/blog reviews on the movement.

5. The genuine hunger for people to see God move in our Nation at a time where hate speeches and sectionalisation threatens to harm our national unity.

6. The building of a habit of spending time in praise and worship of the creator which in turn leaves participants spiritually fulfilled and positive minded mentally which is a good thing since the ease of falling into depression seems to be on the rise in the country and worldwide these days.

*This list will most likely increase by the end of the month, so it is not comprehensive.*

This is what I call a dream seed.

When the #HallelujahChallenge publicity started on Instagram, May 31st, I doubt Nathaniel Bassey had any inkling just how intense this would be, even though from one of the numerous pages attached to him, there is talk of how it's a manifestation of God's promise, "If you remember, We declared that THIS MONTH, God would do things in people's lives that will make GLOBAL headlines. Now, this is just a prophetic sign for you all. I repeat, what God is set to do in your lives SHALL MAKE GLOBAL HEADLINES in JESUS' name. Amen.THE OLOWOGBOGBORO himself(JESUS CHRIST) Goes Global." He's had to assign a worship session he missed while in flight in the US for RCCG convention to another worshiper to handle just to keep the momentum going.

This dream of sharing his worship time with the world via live streaming based on an instruction from God was a seed that has grown to touch lots of lives and will continue to do so till the challenge is over. Heck, it will even help build a culture of seeking to praise God among people so disillusioned and sure that God doesn't care for humanity anymore.

Famed Media Personality, Joy Isi Bewaji, tried to jump in on the action by raising another train of thought that should get Christians planning towards doing more than just 'feeling good' after communing with God and got tongue lashed seriously for her seeming insensitivity. Although she had a point, her comments were a bit ill-timed. If it had come at the end of the challenge or maybe if it was written without reference to the #HallelujahChallenge it might have been better welcomed.

The truth is, we all have a dream for a better Nigeria. And one thing our faith in God does is boost our confidence that we are more than capable of achieving it. When we reach out to God in worship, God reaches down to us with revelations and key insights on how we can succeed. And since God needs our praises more than our prayers, he always sends blessings our way through other human beings who make themselves willing vessels for his leading. If anything, a great nation is built by the combined working of all our dreams. If we all acted on our dreams and passions as much as we struggle with the current accepted norm, we would all have a better Nigeria.

Like I said earlier, this challenge is a dream seed. God might be a miracle worker but after the miracle, what next? We've all got to make him proud of us by doing what we know we can to make "His Kingdom Come, and His Will be Done" in Nigeria. Earth is our domain; it's up to us to live up to God's expectation of us which includes being hard working and resourceful to ensure his mandate for humanity is fulfilled.

So join in the #HallelujahChallenge. I know I will tonight. And watch God move beyond our limits to help make our dreams a possibility. When the challenge is over, get up and work like never before to ensure 'His Dream' of Righteousness, Peace and Joy in the Holy Ghost for our nation comes true (not joy in our wealth, success or personal pride).

Thank you, Minister Nathaniel Bassey for heeding God's call upon your life and opening the doors of heaven for God's mighty outstretched hands to remind us that we are not alone in our journey on planet Earth.

NIGERIA DECIDES

I know it’s not the best time to discuss elections since they are almost over and the freelance as well as paid journalists have already discussed the issues in as many ways as possible. But this isn’t another article on “let’s review the 2015 presidential elections and the consequences of the outcome of the elections”. No. This is simply the story of a Nigerian from her perspective on a monumental time in Nigeria’s History.

For weeks we’ve been experiencing the desperation of the politicians in their campaigns – digging dirt on each other and spilling it all over the media waves, sharing bags of rice and money to people they hope will vote them, etc – and the general impression was that these elections were going to be ‘bloody’ afterwards. People who came home for whatever reasons or had valid visas to travel out decided that week of March 28th was the best time to get out. Those of us who had nowhere to go could only preach against violence, avoid volatile conversations that could lead to negative physical expressions and pray for peace before, during and after the elections. Christians were divided in their choice of who to vote, some wanted continuity of the good works this administration had done while others were tired of making excuses for this administration’s inadequacies which involved not listening to the cries of the people as well failure to safe guard human lives. Pastors spilled political opinions all over social media incurring both the praise and wrath of listeners.

Barely six weeks to the elections, with help from neighboring countries, our armed forces began an effective counter attack on the dreaded Boko Haram. Assurances of security presence at the election grounds were made. New technology to cancel out rigging mechanics were also promised and yet many registered voters still felt disinterested or too scared to go out and vote. Many claimed lack of PVC cards or inability for them to vote at the closest polling unit as opposed to travelling to wherever they registered for their PVC was the reasons why they had no intention of coming out to vote. I with my pregnancy, determined to exercise my franchise irrespective of the challenge it would pose to me physically, I went out to vote. I figured if I prayed for peace, I should trust God enough to provide protection for me and those who would vote at the polls.

When I got to the grounds, the first thing I noticed was many people leaving. Albeit they were mostly those who were already accredited and didn’t want to hang around before the actual elections at 1pm. A few people left and never came back (accredited and not accredited) because they figured the stress of voting for candidates they had no faith in was not worth their hassle. So in the end, those who did vote were a handful of our over 100million populace (say below 40 million people). Yet I was amazed at the dedication of those who did come out to vote. The old were undeterred by the heat, long wait in line and lack of seating arrangements; to them voting was their gift to those they may leave behind when death calls on them. Babes were strapped to backs of nursing mothers who stood under the sun unprepared with umbrellas. Rumours of non-functioning PVC card readers put a scare in people but the reasons were discovered in time before the accreditation process was over (there were nylons covering the part of the machine for finger print verification).

In some parts of the countries, the INEC officials never showed up, others showed up late. A few polling units in the North East were attacked by Boko Haram but after which voters came back out to cast their votes. During the voting session, I was given preferential treatment much to the anger of many because I was pregnant, something that should have been done from the start of the elections (get an extra card reader and area for the aged, disabled and mothers – pregnant or nursing – to enable them get through the process faster). After casting our votes, we all went home and waited for the counting of all the votes from each state and its polling units on National television for three days. Unlike most, I already knew who would win irrespective of who I chose to vote for. I believe a lot of Nigerians did but they just wanted to believe their candidate would win. Either way, what Nigerians really voted for and accepted as the final result was electoral peace. That’s why we were elated when the incumbent president conceded defeat before the results were finalized, despite his party’s claims of unfair treatments in regards to their claims. Some Nigerians even sat in front of INEC offices for hours to prevent any intruders with the capability of rigging from getting in and refused to be turned back by threats from the government and police force.

As the governorship and state house of assembly elections draw near, Nigerians have already made it clear the values they stand united on. We’ve decided on having no more corrupt or ineffective leaders, no more insensitive government that would turn a deaf ear to the cries of the people, no more cabal that are not subject to the law or accountability to the Nigerian people, no more tales of fraud or a dying economy with no way out, no more rigging of elections, no more lack of power supply that hinders the manufacturing and entrepreneurial sector from attaining great heights, and so much more. The people have realized we finally have a voice and our votes count. It’s time to demand from the government what is our right for the sakes of our children and the next generation. Yes we are still plagued by religious and ethnic divisions, blinded by erroneous party system beliefs; but the New Nigeria, the one I belong to, are learning to look beyond what divides us as a nation to what unites us. And it’s on the strength of this knowledge that we have began to hope again for our nation just like our parents did. From now hence forth, we are Nigeria and it is us who decides the fate of the Nation and its leadership.

Elections and Valentines

February 2015 is a month like no other in Nigeria’s history. February 14th which has been dedicated to lovers as an unofficial public holiday for the celebration of love, was announced by INEC to be one of the most important days in Nigeria’s history, the presidential elections. After years of military rule and recycled military leaders under the name of democracy, Nigerians have finally begun to understand what it means to be a democratic society. The freedom of information (FOI) act has empowered Nigerians to become bold and ask the much needed questions to ensure our leaders are held accountable. No other time has the free flow of information been this fluid than during the campaigns for the upcoming elections (which are now scheduled to hold in March 2015).

For years Nigerians have cried for a change in the way the affairs of this country has been handled by its leaders. 4years ago we had the second free and fair elections in the Nation’s history since June 12th 1993 where MKO Abiola won and was denied the right to rule by the then military administration. 4years ago all Nigerians –northerners and southerners – rallied behind a man from a minority tribe because for once, hope was stirred and dreams of a better nation seemed within reach. 4years after, a host of voters are left disillusioned by the failures and short comings of an administration they had high hopes for and now clamor for the safety of military experience which they believe will bring an end to all the nation’s woes. Though it’s painful to see how easily forgotten the good done by the present administration has become in relation to its short comings, it is a positive thing to see Nigerians standing up for their rights and saying ‘no more politics with human lives’ and ‘we want true, exemplary leadership’.

Another sad development is the aggression and lack of tolerance for the views of others. Facts stated are now assumed to be propaganda by the opposition. Questions that should prove the strength of the foundations of integrity or give clarity as to the intentions of running candidates are now assumed as attacks on personalities. People no longer read manifestoes of not just the parties but of the individuals; neither are they objective and open minded to read between the lines of the promises being dangled in front of us all. Sentiments, religious fears and outright bias runs wild on our social media. Friends have stopped speaking because of opinion differences and enemies have formed alliances to foster a unified agenda. But I ask how long will these last? It is important for us to know that the problems of our Nation are not a one man affair. No one person or political party has the solutions to all our problems. We can’t fold our hands and point fingers at those we elect to solve all our problems and make our dreams come true. We all have a part to play. Corruption isn’t just stealing; it is the self-serving nature in us all that drives us to put our agendas before the greater good of others. Unemployment isn’t just a Nigerian thing, it’s a global affair; even with over 257,000 jobs created in the US last year, their unemployment rate is still unchanged at 5.7% while in one European country, unemployed youths have been encouraged to move back in with their parents to reduce the debt in the mortgage/housing sector. The lists of global challenges which are now at our doorstep are too many to name.

In the spirit of Valentine I implore my fellow countrymen to practice restraint and show tolerance for one another. No politician is worth the blood of anyone. Someone once told me, politics is a game of popularity and democracy isn’t a perfect system because the people may not always be right in their majority opinion. The mainstream parties are both playing dirty right now but I believe we are not yet a two party nation, if you don’t like the choices before you; there are 12 other candidates to cast your votes for. It is your civic duty to cast your vote; if you truly love this nation, you won’t make plans to not participate in these elections slated for March 28th (Presidential, Senatorial and House of Representatives) & April 11 (Governorship and state House of Assembly) 2015. I choose to believe that it was no coincidence that the day of love was initially chosen to contain a period known for violence. Let’s say no to violence, let’s vote and not fight. Get your voters card (PVC) and show your love for your nation.

Let brotherly love be shared among us even if the results of the elections do not go our way. We all want the same thing, a better Nigeria. So let us show love for one another by contributing our quota to National development. Happy Valentines’ day and may our elections be peaceful.

THE “THEY” MENTALITY (Part 2)

This is so much more than just the judiciary system. It is connected to the ‘they’ mentality possessed by most of us - the belief that ‘others’ are the ones responsible for everything while the rest of us are exempt from and therefore free of any obligation to act. This mentality is what is killing us as a people. We show no interest in the crisis in Egypt, Syria, Liberia and other nations because we believe it has nothing to do with us. We raise our noses up at the plight of others because it has not gotten to our backyards yet. The Ebola issue is a classic example of this attitude; where thousands were dying and we did nothing for almost 6 months after its initial outbreak until Patrick Sawyer came into the country and we lost 20 lives. I applaud our rapid response but this same attitude I’m referring to is why America, Spain and other countries did nothing until it got to their shores. No more digression, back to Nigeria. If we are to be a people, we need to work together to ensure all parts of our society is working so our future generation can be secured.

Below are a few suggestions & recommendations on how to right the wrongs in our society so as to build better systems to sustain us as a nation:

1. Enlightenment Campaigns - these can be done by anyone (bloggers, journalists, activists or even concerned citizens) on any platform or medium be it on TV, print or social media. We need to educate people on how to be value oriented, emphatic as well as sympathetic towards the plights of humanity all around us. But most especially to be compassionate (which takes empathy and sympathy to the next level which is action!), doing something about the issues around us. Only then can we see the change we seek that can restructure our failed national systems.

Isioma lamented, “Sometimes it seems like all we do is talk, protest and speak plenty English” and who can blame her when you put all our efforts of #bringbackourgirls on the scale of protest versus actions. But I believe that in speaking regularly through every medium about issues plaguing our nation and their solutions, we not only create awareness that these problems exists and needs to be solved but also encourage more people to be solution oriented and proffer better solutions that can be implemented if the right people get wind of all our chatter.

2. Laws and Sanctions- it’s not enough to create laws but there needs to be mechanism in place to ensure that these laws are carried out and sanctions are emitted on those who do not. This is where law enforcers come in, not to victimize the populace but to ensure law breakers are actually knowledgeable about the laws they are breaking and the penalties for them before executing sanctions.

3. Accountability – this is where you and I can play a very active role. We can hold our leaders accountable by holding protests (street march/sit downs & hash tag online campaigns), calling in to ask questions during televised debates with our leaders or engaging in PRO debates. We can also be effective if we knew who the people representing our constituencies are and call them out of they fail to do their jobs.

4. Think and Act - I don’t know about you but I am tired of reading articles that point accusing fingers at everyone else as the blame for the failure of Nigeria as a nation. If we all do what is right, raise children who believe in doing right, then we would have raised a generation of thinkers whose passion is to act on what they know is right to do. Don’t just sit and complain; ask yourself, what can be done? Who can help make my ideas reality and what can I do to ensure the solutions I’ve come up with are heard and implemented? It doesn’t matter who takes the glory for the solution you provide, what matters is if it’s acted upon.

It‘s time we get off our high horse and get rid of this ‘They’ mentality that absolves us of any responsibility towards the improvement of Nigeria, our nation. @grandverve said, “the sort of change we need requires critical mass” and I agree. Only a few good men can’t change our systems no matter the significant position of power they hold. If we won’t do it, who will? Let us not be like those who live in the moment and forget to keep an inheritance or leave a legacy for generations unborn. If our heroes past did not stand up and fight for our independence, we may not be here as a country 54 years later. If we truly believe in the unity and posterity of this nation, then it’s time for us ALL to cast aside all forms of segregation especially the ‘they’ mentality and embrace a ‘We’ mentality approach to Nation Building.

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THE “THEY” MENTALITY (Part 1)

On the 9th of June this year, I was drawn into a conversation on twitter about a nameless woman who was raped to death by some cattle rustlers in Ovia North East LGA about a week prior to this discussion. News report had it that the only witness to the crime was the woman’s 18year old son who fled the scene and reported the matter to Ekiadolor Divisional Police headquarters. In the news report that sparked up the conversation on twitter, the Public Relations Officer (PRO) to Edo State police Command confirmed that three suspects linked to the crime had been apprehended. The possibility that justice would be served if corrupt police officials aren’t paid off to release the suspect pending a court case was what stirred the conversation on twitter. This conversation was by a few concerned Nigerians (not necessarily those living in Edo State) and it went from on how the criminals should be prosecuted and sentenced to how flawed the justice system in Nigeria is. The cases sited to support the latter claim were the ALUU4, Cynthia Osisogu Facebook murder case, and a few other high profiled cases in which there has been no closure despite the years gone by. I recall sharing their sentiments when the Oscar Pistorius Trial in South Africa, came to a close within a year of the suspect’s arrest with every detail of the court proceedings covered by BBC Africa and other international journalists.

Why does it seem like the judicial system in Nigeria is non-functional? Why do cases go on forever with no closure even when the accused or suspect has been granted bail? It hurts to see a guilty suspect go on living a normal life as though nothing ever happen just because the court is yet to decide appropriate punishment for the crime. Why does it seem as though Lady Justice is not only blind but sluggish? It is because our legal system is broken.

It is filled with everyday people like you and I whose basic instinct is first survival before a high desire for seeing justice served on offenders. It’s not like lawyers don’t have a sense of moral indignation that fuels their desire to protect the vulnerable in society against perpetrators of crime, it’s just that practicing law is first a job that meets their basic needs of food, shelter, etc before it can become a form of social activism. That is why most lawyers hardly take on pro bono cases because for them to do that or for them to become vigilantes, they need a steady source of income that won’t be affected by their passion for justice. This is no way an attack on lawyers but a way for us to see how each individual element contributes to the breakdown of our justice system. Starting with the law practitioners is simply my attempt to explain why cases would rather be adjourned forever because each court appearance is factored into the fees to be paid by their client -the guilty, innocent, victim or accused.

Yes it is true that sometimes the police does make mistakes in their arrest and accuse innocent people of crimes they did not commit. [As can be seen in the story of Cynthia’s Murder where an innocent pharmacist, a graduate of Igbinedion University Okada, IUO Benin, was framed by the police and wrongfully accused. In his case protests and petitions from friends and well wishers both on social media and otherwise was what saved him from the 15count charges.] These suspects are held in prison cells till the case has either been taken to court or settled out of court at the police station since it is usually up to the judicial system to decide the suspect’s fate – guilty or innocent.

In the case sparking this discussion, it was agreed that in every state there is a legal aid who should be responsible for taking up cases like this nameless women’s case as pro bono and fight till justice is served. As of right now, i'm unaware of the existence of a Public Defenders Legal Aid office (where the lawyers' fees are covered by the Government to enable the poor get justice if they can't afford the normal legal fees for court proceedings) in any State in Nigeria. We are most certain that one of the reasons a lot of crimes go unpunished in our system is because most victims cannot afford the legal fees associated with fighting for justice and if that’s the case why bother reporting to the Police when a crime is committed?

If the system has failed to maintain order and protect citizens, who then should be held responsible for restructuring the system? By the justice system, we are referring to the lawyers, judiciary, the executive and the legislators. @adeken01 said, “So far the current system allows the inept to thrive while good men are labeled as whistle blowers?” Whose job is it to ensure that something is being done when criminals are said to be tried and sentenced under the Law? Who is to follow up and ensure due process is achieved?

THE ISSUES WITH THE MISSING CHIBOK GIRLS

The #BringBackOurGirls campaign is still very much on and alive in Nigeria. This is not a social media stint. It is our reality. Since 2009, Boko Haram have killed no less than 6000 people, destroyed about 750 churches along with schools, vehicles and other properties including the UN national headquarters building in Abuja, and kidnapped more people than we can keep count of. For years the Nigerian populace has been praying for an end to this menace and the kidnapping of the chibok girls was the last straw that broke the camel’s back and sent series of protests all over the country that brought the attention of the international community. Since April 14th, 2014 hundreds of parents go to bed every night crying and wondering if they’ll ever see their daughters again.

Citizens have been and are still outraged at the government’s slow and seeming nonchalant response to this crisis. When the news of the kidnapping of over 200 Chibok secondary school students hit the media, Aso Rock never issued any statement or reacted in any way that showed the masses the Government’s stand on the issue. It was not until Oby Ezekwesili voiced the pain of the people during the International Bookfair held in Port Harcourt in the month of April that the hash tag (#BringBackOurGirls) campaign began. For once people could identify with pain of the affected families and know they were not alone in these feelings of outrage. United with one voice, they cried out in multiple protests in different parts of the country and asked to the government to do something to curtail the excesses of Boko Haram and rescue those innocent girls whose only objective before their abduction was to prepare for their WAEC exams in hopes of having a better future in a place where prosperity is a dream.

When our government finally reacted, it was with plans to set up a committee 4days later that will look into the matter of finding the #Chibokgirls instead of decisive action. Over the years, setting up of committees has become a way for government to pacify the people which usually meant the death of an issue rather than the solution the people seek/demand for. That is why that move did nothing to soothe the pains Nigerians over the issue and only further enrage us. People interpreted it as the President’s lack of concern for its citizenry. In her husband’s defense, the First Lady made a public spectacle of her pain 2weeks too late regarding the abduction and called for the enrollment records to be made available to verify the identity of the girls. Why didn’t anyone have the initiative to do that before she did? Rather than pacify Nigerians, her actions were interpreted as pretentious and insincere. Then came the Presidential chat with Channels TV News where Nigerians expected the President to address the huge media scandal this issue was causing worldwide for his administration. To our gross disappointment, his stance was more on highlighting the good his administration had done so far as well as promote the World Economic Summit to be held the following week in Abuja, just days after the 2nd bombing of Nyanya Bus park in Abuja. Once again Nigerians were infuriated, myself included.

Next on the list of atrocities held by the people against the government was the blame game and the casting of doubt - on if that many girls were actually kidnapped - by politicians claiming it was all a fabricated story, a smear tactic by opponents of the ruling party PDP (People’s Democratic Party) against GEJ’s administration. Desperate for answers, numerous civilians cried out for International News agencies to help inform people with investigative Journalism - which seems to be none existent in our news agencies as many were simply echoes of whoever first had the breaking news of the day - of what’s truly happening in the Country. They showed up and proved that the girls were actually kidnapped and nations around the world were more than willing to help rescue them as well as the origin and journey of Boko Haram from 2009 (way before the GEJ-Sambo administration) till date.

But with the intervention of the international community, a new dilemma arose. Initially Nigerians were afraid that the intervention of world powers like England, USA, France, China, etc would mean an end to our democracy via indirect colonization. America was the first to declare their intentions to assist our military not to take over and with time plus the release of detailed reports of their assistance, Nigerians minds were appeased. The new challenge we face now is the fact that it’s been well over 2months (73days to be precise) since the international community said they were intervening to help find the girls with promises to support our government and still no results, the girls have not yet been found or returned home to their families. Now we are asking, what is going on?

#bringbackourgirls

So I know I have been really quiet this period and a lot of my readers have been checking in on me to see if I have written anything new. Really sorry about my silence. I lost my dad on April 16th, two days after the first Nyanya-Abuja bomb blast (you know the same motor part was bombed twice, with barely a week’s interval, right?) and the very day the Chibok girls were abducted. Loaded with grief for both my nation and personally, I found it hard to collect my thoughts into a coherent meaningful string of words that would say what needed to be said. In my grief I lost all hope but I’m thankful for twitter that allowed me express my pain publicly but still in anonymity.

By the time I had come to terms with my grief, the Nigerian women had decided enough is enough of the government’s nonchalant attitude towards the abduction especially with rumours of the girls being sold off as sex slaves, beaten and being raped repeatedly (link to youtube video of escaped girls recounting their ordeal). Nigerians were enraged because for years we’ve cried for an end to the attacks in the North-Eastern part of the Nation by Boko Haram as we lost churches, police stations, security personnel and families to senseless violence. Somehow all our prayers got answered and the international community was moved to act (with not only the 1.3million retweets for the #bringbackourgirls campaign but also the introduction of technology, intelligence and armed forces). Word has it that the masterminds of the Nyaya bomb blast had been apprehended by the Nigerian army with help from US Special forces. For more on the whole story, follow news agencies. My objective with this post and others to follow is to explain as an inside source what Nigerians are feeling based on the numerous pro and against GEJ information circulating around.

It goes without saying that this can’t be entirely done in one blog piece but I’ll try. First of all, you all know I am pro GEJ, not only because I voted him in but because for once I wanted to say I believe in my government despite their short comings. I applaud the transformation agenda but on the Boko Haram terrorism, just like many Nigerians, I have not been pleased. Before the protests, I spoke to a family member who was in the Nigerian military and what he told me about the plight of our armed forces in the North broke my heart. Tales of how emotionally drained and physically malnourished they were and how greed had caused their superiors to deprive them basic things like brand new uniforms (to cut cost old uniforms of deceased officers were being recycled) and high tech ammunition/arms (old poorly maintained AK-47 was being used by our military to fight radicals with brand new automatic rifles). So rather than say anything, i kept quiet and urged people to pray for Nigeria because the issues on ground involved God stepping in to bring deliverance. This i did through my facebook blog page.

I'm out of time now, the next time i'll tell you more about what led to this campaign and how Nigerians feel let down by their government despite all they've done to improve our nation and bring in foreign investment/attention with their transformation agenda and as seen in the World Economic Forum that still held last week.

NIGERIA'S ANTI-GAY LAW

A few weeks ago, CNN talked about our Same Sex Prohibition Act which has now become an issue of whether it is right or not to deny the basic human rights of a minority within a democratic society or the injustice of the Bill. Many Nigerians are careful not to flood Social Media with their views because of the embarrassment they felt when they took a stand against the Senate for the Underage girl marriage amendment, which they thought was being made to the 1999 constitution, only to be told they read the bill out of context. The penalties of this Bill, I agree, are a bit too stiff (e.g. 14 years imprisonment) and I also concur with some Nigerians that some terms in the Act need to be properly clarified so Law enforcers do not abuse it. Nigerians also need proper orientation on the Act so as not confuse it with Sharia Law which prosecutes homosexuals for being gay.

While the Act may seem extreme, keeping quiet about the matter will only make it worst. Being gay is a personal choice but robbing it in the face of the Majority that do not accept it as a way of life is pushing it too far. But that doesn't give anyone the right to molest Gay people. Understanding of this matter is imperative to enable one take a stand and to do that, you need to read the Prohibition Act or the interpretation of the Act from a legal stand point, see http://t.co/fmJpONpZ0F. And one last thing, please stop attacking Goodluck Ebele Jonathan (GEJ) for signing the Bill. If the Bill reflects the wishes of Majority of the Nigerian people whether it be based on cultural or religious preferences, should he not sign it? Are we not in an era of democracy where the Government is answerable to the people? (see dailypost.com.ng/2014/01/22/reno-omokri-sex-marriage-government-teacher/).

This post was first hosted on my facebook page, Life, Love and Anything Goes

THE MEETING POINT (PT. 2)

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POLITICS

• MRS JOE OKEI-ODUMAKIN
(Human Rights Activist in Nigeria; President of Women Arise for change Initiative, Center for Change in CDP and Democracy for Change Campaign, etc and has received Multiple Awards)

Change does not come down from Heaven; we have to be part of that change. My cause is to see a system that works. Women who have been given the opportunity to serve have delivered, apart from a few who have let us down. We need to have that passion for change, we also need to change our mindsets and have a goal. We need to be assertive, study and stand up for what is right. The youth remains he lubricant of the survival of any society. Let us believe that what we do today with determination, posterity will outlive us. Let’s believe that anything we do today will live on. The more united we are as agents of change, the greater our chances of making Nigeria flourish again.

• JOHN OYEGUN
(Former Governor of Edo State during Babangida’s transition from Military to Democratic rule between 1992 -1993, Chairman Technical Working Committee of CODER and Leader of ANPP political party)

People look at Politics as a money making venture because people do not have alternative employment, we have a comatose economy, graduates without job or people serving with no experience. Before I entered Politics, I used to work in Development where doing projects to enrich society was the emphasis, so it formed the mindset/idea I had when I decided to go into Politics. With a civil servant father, growing up I learned to have a clear idea of what should not be done because the price to pay is high. The remedy for choosing service oriented political leaders is: Nobody should be entrusted with an office if they do not have their own business, worked in a structured environment or managed something because he won’t have what it takes to govern. You don’t practice governance with the Nigerian Populace of over 100million. Youths have to be prepared by being knowledgeable, aggressive, setting goals and persevering in pursuing them. You must be in command of your field don’t let anyone shut you out or down. Choose a direction to which you want to make an impact and you’ll get there sooner than later.

• MR. IYOBOSA
(Former Reporter of the News Temple Magazine, known for investigative Journalism)

Media is one of the institutions that have a role to play in advancing the society. In 1999 Nigerian constitution, the media were mandated to hold the government accountable to the people and we have been doing that quite well. Investigative journalism has been a tool in exposing corruption. The youths are no longer leaders of tomorrow but of today. Most Nations that have made progress turn to their young because the youths have more energy; they are more daring because they don’t know the cost of failure. Jesus and Alexander the Great are a few young people who changed the world but age should not be the factor. The question is as young people do we prepare ourselves for leadership? Back in the days, University students usually stood up to government when policies and unpopular decisions are made, it showed that we were engaged in the governance of the Nation.

BUSINESS
• DR. FEB IDAHOSA (BISHOP FEB)
(Son of Archbishop Benson A. Idahosa of blessed memory; founder of thirteen companies and brands, CEO of six Nigerian Companies and board member of two American Universities)

Learn to start small. Start with what you have and what you know how to do and as you do that, your business will grow to become as big as the business you aspire it to become. Get a mentor, someone who has done what you want to do and has gone further than you. Study the person, read their stories; when you are in the presence of greatness, ask questions. Always solve problems and people will chase after you.

• AUSTINE ASIMONYE
(CEO Austin Laz and company Plc, an indigenous manufacturer & specialist in refrigeration equipment and plastic products)

It is where you are that matters, God will always locate you at your location. Don’t focus on problems, focus on your goals and let them motivate you to find solutions to the challenges on your path. Government has made funds available for the manufacturing sector. To overcome the national challenge of power supply in manufacturing, have multiple production lines functioning at the same time, that way your generator covers your cost and compensates for any loss in profit.

• GABRIEL OGBECHIE
(Founder and MD Rainoil Ltd, a leading company in Nigeria’s Oil and Gas Sector)

No one will give a ‘broke’ person money to start a business. You need to have equity before a bank will take your business proposal seriously. When starting up, create structures that your business will need when it grows. The most important thing you need to start any business is knowledge not cash; God will bring people to assist you. If you don’t know much about the business you want to venture into, set your capital aside and study the business. The best time to so business is when you are young with lots of energy and drive not when you are retired or put out of work.

CAREER

• MRS. LAURIE WHETSONE IDAHOSA
(Director of Campus Life in Benson Idahosa University, Real Estate Investor, Event Planner, Executive Member of CWFI and Faith Mediplex board, Co-founder of Big Ben children’s Hospital, Pastor, Mentor and Motivational Speaker)

Do with your life what you are passionate about. Every day you have opportunities that can make or break your future. Take decisions everyday that draws you closer to the path you were chosen for. As a woman, learn to switch ‘hats’ when actively engaging in multiple responsibilities.

• ARUOSA OSEMWEGIE
(An alumnus of Harvard Business School, Human Resource Consultant, Job Search Strategist, Life and Career Coach and Author)

Your career is your life’s expression. Your profession is a tool towards your career. What do you want to be remembered for such that when you look back, you’ll see the channel that took you there. Stop looking for jobs and try to make something out of the place you are in. Your career is different from your profession.

• ELVIS DANIELS
(Head of Youth segment for Etisalat (telecoms company), Marketing professional with over 10 years experience in fields like Relationship, Telecomms, Communications, Sponsorship, Media and Event management.)

People are different and what works for one person may not work for another. Know what you want and it’ll determine your career. If you put your mind at it, you’ll succeed. Study the field you want to excel at, become an expert in it. You have to get out there and make things work for you. If you are focused and persistent with your vision, you will get there. When you are convinced about what you want to achieve, sell it with confidence.

I hope you are inspired to excel in every aspect of your life by these words. Don't just read them, act on them.

THE MEETING POINT

So, a lot of readers enjoyed my Brian Tracy Seminar pointers and since I attended another seminar like it a few days after, I decided to share once again. This time, it was a program (The Meeting Point) organized by Niyi Adesanya, one of the top 10 public speakers in Nigeria, an author and business consultant. The first time I heard him speak was in 2010 during Walk With Will Conference organized by CGMi Church Unusual. I remember thinking he blew my mind with his down to earth practical solution to problems and issues.

So when I heard he was bringing ‘heavy weight champions’ in politics, business and career to the same venue I first heard him here in Benin City and that the Seminar would be free for all, I couldn’t resist the urge to tag along with my baby and hubby to be mentally enriched. From the sessions’ moderators – Efex Iyamu, Teajay Chunu and Daniel Ikuenobe – to the panelists, it was hard not to pick up something from this event. It lasted for 7 hours and no matter how quick I am with the pen, there’s only so little time will permit me to share.

Oh, lest I forget. The meeting point is a seminar organized to link Luminaries (high level achievers in different sectors) and Visionaries (young aspiring achievers) together in 6 Geo-political zones in Nigeria – Kano, Abuja, Ibadan, Enugu, Benin and Lagos.

So here are nuggets of wisdom from the amazing personalities that showed up that day.

• PAT UTOMI
(Founder, center of values in Leadership; founding senior of Lagos Business School and onetime special adviser to the president)

On Politics: Some people believe in the central conservative truth that it is not politics but culture that is responsible for the progress of a society (Republican point of view). While others believe in the liberal truth that politics can change a culture and save it from itself (Liberals point of view). Singapore is prove of the liberals view as politics help change it from 3rd world country to a 1st world country and Harvard University used value chain analysis years ago to discover how Colombia was an example of how family values/culture affects the progress of a nation. Poverty comes down to our values. What do we hold dear? Culture damages society in a fundamental way. When we say value can shape the progress of a nation, it’s not hard to see why a nation like Nigeria with resource-full and talented citizenry is not more progressive than it is. The collapse of culture has produced a regime of incentives where it pays to be a criminal or extortionist. That kind of culture of illegally obtaining wealth does not sustain progress.

On business: making money in business is a side effect of doing well in business. When you have a burden for something, it’ll translate into a vision and that vision is what will enable you make wealth. Entrepreneurship is about adding value, and then going on to create a venture, commercialize it and institutionalize it. We are a lazy society looking for money making opportunities when there are problems to be systematically solved all around us that has potential to give wealth to the initiator. An entrepreneur builds ladders of opportunities; think global value chain. In all consciousness, we should pursue an entrepreneurial culture as a people because there in lies our business and ability to enrich the nation.
to be continued...

PUBLIC ENEMY NO. 1

In Nigeria, you can live a relatively peaceful life if you do not have a run in with any of the following people: Armed robbers, Fraudsters (e.g. ‘Yahoo boys’ and ‘One Chance’) and Law Enforcers. Why put law enforcers with criminals? That’s because nowadays, greedy illiterates have been given uniforms and the power to enforce societal principles which has in turn led to the victimization of innocent citizens.

Last year in August, I tweeted about the murder of Cynthia Osokogu, a 23yr old business woman who traveled to Lagos to meet up with a facebook acquaintance at a hotel for business and possible romantic affair. In other to solve the case and look effective, the police decided to arrest everyone related to the case in one way or the other except the hotel staffs. That was how an innocent intern pharmacist became accused of murder on 16 count charges after being tricked by the police to sell the drug used on the victim before she was raped and killed. With no law in place as to restrict the sale of certain medicinal substances that can be abused for other purposes, how can anyone know what manner in which the drug would be used or the true intention of the buyer?

That’s just one case of police victimization, despite all their TV ads and programs which say, ‘the police is your friend’. How can we trust them when they extort money from us whenever we call upon them to serve? No wonder there are so many unreported crimes in the nation. Later the police would expect the people not to take matters into their own hands and execute ‘jungle justice’ where the mob punishes caught offenders in public places. Let’s move on to some other form of victimization common to people living in Benin City, Edo state.

It is one thing to know you are on the wrong side of the law and quite another to be accused of being an offender of a law you know nothing about. This is usually what happens with traffic controllers and road safety officials. Sometimes they would stop a vehicle to check their papers and safety gear and finding nothing out of order, they’ll invent a permit or specification for a safety appliance like fire extinguisher or waste basket and compel car owners to pay sums of money which are never remitted to the state government. If you insist on your right, they’ll jump into your vehicle, causing unnecessary hold up on the road and demand you follow them to their office where the pay is larger. The only way to get out of it is to plead with them or conform to their wishes if begging doesn’t work or to be extremely knowledgeable of the law and your right and argue them out of reason backed up by knowing someone in a high position of authority to muscle you out of that situation.

Another scenario is their deliberate omission of sign posts in restricted areas or places where new communal law suggests certain activities shouldn’t be carried out there. They share themselves into two groups to ensure they divide and conquer. Some in plain clothes who look like thugs will approach you and pretend to inform you of the law and once you begin to act in compliance, they resist your attempts and start making trouble as though you attacked them. Their co-conspirators in uniform joins them and pretends to keep the peace while allowing the tow truck to hinge itself on your vehicle until you slip them an amount they deem worthy if not, it is off to their station to pay a higher bill. They’ll even go as far as suggesting a small amount they want you to pay and once you pay it, they still take you to their office and accuse you of bribing them. Thereby forcing you to pay a higher sum (with no receipt to prove that the money you paid will be paid into the Government’s account).

So how are these civil servants who operate during the day different from the armed robbers that attack at night? They have become more of a menace than a help to society, forcing individuals to create systems that avoid the use of their services. I have personally experienced these injustice meted out on the average Nigerian by those who are called to serve and protect. While we are trying to get our heads above water, some politicians in public offices are coming up with projects that their relatives or people who offer them bribe can manage in order to ensure they remain enriched with public funds. Our systems have become so flawed that youths fear there’ll be no remedy to salvage the nation from the clutches of corruption.

The level of oppression in the land by our fellow men is too much. Have a heart. If this was done to someone you love, would you stand for it? How can we revive the system such that educated men of integrity can hold offices in every sector of the economy? The solution lies in having a societal paradigm shift from self to selflessness; being willing to put our lives on the line for the greater good of all like Prof. Dora Akunyili did with NAFDAC and has left a legacy for other leaders after her to follow. We need a societal value change, where money isn’t the end result of hard work but who we become and the legacy we leave for others to follow. It starts with us as parents teaching our children the right values, then our churches or religious establishments teaching fundamental truths which have the power to liberate the mind of men and set them on a course of righteousness and love. Let’s stop waiting for activists and motivational speakers to ‘ginger’ us to make a change and let’s realize that the change starts with each and every one of us reading this piece.

Spread the word, get others to read this and be stirred in their hearts to act. It’s now or never. God bless Nigeria!